Back to report that we bought a mattress from mygreenmattress, the pure echo model. Ordered it one day before skyward posted warning against non-organic wool, and had to pray it'd be okay. This one claims organic cotton but not organic wool and it has no latex like the upgraded model. Now 2 weeks sleeping on it. Had a smell but not a chemical smell. Very firm (some might say "hard") which is okay for me but we may have to top it with something on my wife's side and I'm sure it'd be too hard for someone with fibromyalgia.
Glad to be rid of the memory foam mattress which was making us all sick. The smell effected me the same way solvents and nail polish do...instant neurological disaster. So when the brain fog cleared enough, I researched to see if memory foam off-gassed the same chems. Sure enough! Toluene and acetone in addition to the others that everyone talks about!
So, I'm liking the mygreenmattress and feeling quite a bit better. Need to get rid of the memory foam mattress in my kid's room as soon as we can afford to (although that one never had as strong an odor as the other). I am using houseplants to metabolize the residual gases.
My memory foam mattresses, which claim to be infused with green tea (ha ha, what a scam!) and which carry a meaningless certification from the foam industry, were purchased based on the fact that one of the self-proclaimed Non-Toxic Guru ladies had them at the bottom of her recommendations for non-toxic mattresses. Her top two recommedations were very expensive organic mattresses and, I imagine, she wasn't getting enough click-through money and thought she should offer something for people who aren't wealthy, says :"These would be a good choice for people on a budget" and put an amaz0n click-through. Had to say because if it saves one person from going through what I've been going through for the past 3 months, it'll be worth it.
Peace.